Author John Hendrickson and his book LIFE ON DELAY. Conversation partner Dave Holmes.

John Hendrickson Photo Credit: Matthew Bernucca

Life on Delay: Making Peace with a Stutter (Knopf)

An intimate, candid memoir about learning to live with—rather than “overcome”—a stutter.

In the fall of 2019, John Hendrickson wrote a groundbreaking story for The Atlantic about Joe Biden’s decades-long journey with stuttering, as well as his own. The article went viral, reaching readers around the world and altering the course of Hendrickson’s life. Overnight, he was forced to publicly confront an element of himself that still caused him great pain. He soon learned he wasn’t alone with his feelings: strangers who stutter began sending him their own personal stories, something that continues to this day. Now, in this reported memoir, Hendrickson takes us deep inside the mind and heart of a stutterer as he sets out to answer lingering questions about himself and his condition that he was often too afraid to ask.

In Life on Delay, Hendrickson writes candidly about bullying, substance abuse, depression, isolation, and other issues stutterers like him face daily. He explores the intricate family dynamics surrounding his own stutter and revisits key people from his past in unguarded interviews. Readers get an over-the-shoulder view of his childhood; his career as a journalist, which once seemed impossible; and his search for a romantic partner. Along the way, Hendrickson guides us through the evolution of speech therapy, the controversial quest for a “magic pill” to end stuttering, and the burgeoning self-help movement within the stuttering community. Beyond his own experiences, he shares portraits of fellow stutterers who have changed his life, and he writes about a pioneering doctor who is upending the field of speech therapy.

Life on Delay is an indelible account of perseverance, a soulful narrative about not giving up, and a glimpse into the process of making peace with our past and present selves.

John Hendrickson is a senior editor at The Atlantic. He previously wrote and edited for Rolling StoneEsquire, and The Denver Post. His Atlantic feature “What Joe Biden Can’t Bring Himself to Say” was named one of the best stories of 2019 by Longform. He lives in New York City with his wife.

Dave Holmes is a writer, comic, television host and radio personality based in Los Angeles. He’s an editor-at-large for Esquire Magazine, a contributor to the Los Angeles Times, Vulture, Decider and Runner’s World, and the creator and host of the investigative podcast Waiting For Impact. He’s the author of the memoir “Party of One,” one of NPR’s Best Books of 2016, and has hosted shows for CBS, MTV, E!, FX, Comedy Central, and History, among others, most recently co-hosting Bravo’s Play By Play with Jerry O’Connell. He has a recurring role in the Quibi reboot of Reno 911!. He hosts the World of Wonder podcast Homophilia, recently featured in Entertainment Weekly’s Must List, and the Maximum Fun game show podcast Troubled Waters. He’s on air at SiriusXM’s music channel The Spectrum, a frequent guest on numerous podcasts including Never Not Funny, The Best Show, Attitudes!, and Comedy Bang Bang, the co-creator and -writer of the RTE comedy pilot The Godparents, and his sketch comedy game show The Friday Forty goes up at the Dynasty Typewriter in Los Angeles. 

Praise for Life on Delay -

“Powerful . . . [Hendrickson’s] interviews with researchers, therapists, fellow stutterers, and parents of children who stutter widen the narrative scope and compassionately uplift a stigmatized community. The author is a thoughtful reporter, and he delivers a visceral understanding of how he compartmentalized his shame. This memoir casts a necessary light on a disability that too often goes unseen.” — Publishers Weekly

“Inspiring and empowering . . . [A] thoughtful, well-reported memoir . . . This is a potentially life-changing read for everyone, not only for people who are struggling with feeling different.” — Karen Springen, Booklist

“John Hendrickson’s overwhelmingly honest, clear-eyed memoir of his struggle with speaking is by turns outrage-inducing, heartbreaking, and inspiring. And when the reporter in him seeks out others with similar struggles, an entire world emerges: millions of people, all sharing a need to be understood and accepted, not just by the world but often by those they love the most. The result is revelatory — and extremely moving. I can’t remember the last time I read a book that made me want to both cry and cheer so much, often at the same time.” — Robert Kolker, author of Hidden Valley Road

“John Hendrickson may have struggled to speak, but he shows himself a gifted storyteller. In this moving memoir, he beautifully recounts how a boy mocked for his stutter ended up as a professional communicator, illuminating along the way a world few of us understand. This is a powerful memoir, but more than that, it's a beautiful one.” — Nicholas Kristof, coauthor of Half the Sky

“I could not put down this brave, eye-opening, and exquisitely moving memoir. I cried, laughed, and entered a whole new world that felt both specific and universal in the complexities of navigating a path to self-acceptance. It has made me view myself and others in entirely new ways, and I will be thinking about John's journey for years to come. A must-read for every human.” — Lori Gottlieb, author of Maybe You Should Talk to Someone

“Armed with new thinking and attitudes toward his disability, John Hendrickson revisits his past—including both therapists and allies, and others who mocked and judged. It’s a brave, productive confrontation with years of shame, a resetting of old assumptions. From it, Hendrickson has fashioned this empowering and liberating memoir.” — Ted Conover, author of Cheap Land Colorado

“John Hendrickson’s Life on Delay: Making Peace with a Stutter is an elegant, heart-rendering, emotional account of how to grapple with personal obstacles but persevere with a combination of tenacity and self-awareness. Hendrickson has a magical way with words and pulls the reader into his world with the ease of Joan Didion and Susan Sontag. This shooting star glows brilliantly in this powerful memoir. Highly recommend!” — Douglas Brinkley, author of Silent Spring Revolution

“Brave, compassionate, and brilliantly observed, Life on Delay is not only one of the most engaging books I’ve ever read on disability, it’s one of the best books I’ve read on becoming a mature, authentic human being in a society that stigmatizes difference.” — Steve Silberman, author of NeuroTribes: The Legacy of Autism and the Future of Neurodiversity

Life on Delay is both a revelation and an affirmation. The reader gets a vicarious, almost physical sense of what it means to stutter as well as a universal story of family and forgiveness, told with uncommon grace and wit. John Hendrickson is a beautiful writer, a warm companion, and a compassionate observer of what makes us human.” — Jennifer Senior, winner of the 2022 Pulitzer Prize in Feature writing and author of All Joy and No Fun

“I can’t remember the last time I read a book so human. Life On Delay brims with empathy and honesty. It is a book about family, relationships, and how we come to understand who we are in the world. It moved me in ways that I haven’t experienced before. It’s fantastic.” — Clint Smith, author of How the Word Is Passed

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Life on Delay: Making Peace with a Stutter By John Hendrickson Cover Image
ISBN: 9780593319130
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Published: Knopf - January 17th, 2023

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ISBN: 9780804187992
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